and we LEARNT a lesson. (Sunday, March 2, 2008 / 10:46 PM)
yeah..
and thru joanna's blog post (friendship) which i have read.
i also learnt another lesson.
and that is.
nv ask someone to a gathering when u dont usually call tt particular person.
they may feel..
"ohhhh...im juz a hi bye fren"
"ohhh.. im juz there to fill up the balance the space the amount. juz because i have a bunch of poor frens???"
and lastly..
"ohhh... i juz cant sit among tt clique and talk and laugh and join into their topic, when i see everyone else there WILLING to join in."
if u say we are juz calling u to fill the bal, then wad makes u tink we dun have OTHER FRENS who CAN fill up the balance???
it's nt tt u are freaking freakingly rich (like u drive a ferrari or live in bungalow) that we call u juz hopin u cld say "aww. i tink i'll juz pay for the chalet"
when someone feels tt they cant clique with the rest or they cant join into their topics rite from the start, then why bother giving us false hope and tell us u will come and so on??
why nt juz sae it RIGHT FRM THE START??
do we look like we will hang pig's head on ur door when u reject our offer?
some others also cancelled at the last minute, but AT LEAST SHE WAS STRAIGHT TO THE POINT.
leaving no space of consideration.
and it make things SO MUCH easier when u decide things fast.
and so...she was forgiven....
on the other hand, have u ever put urself in other's shoes?
the people who bought the food?
the ones who will be chipping in and nv complained juz because they AGREED TO THE CHALET right from the start??
is this how human beings sld behave?
nt thinking abt others, giving excuses at the last minute, making ppl's life difficult?
and pls...
if u dun think u can join in or clique in, juz reject.
same goes to ur future career.
if u think being a manager isnt ur style then turn the offer down.
and lastly,
if apology makes the world go round,
then the world would be a peaceful world.
nite.
